Hard Fought

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Some victories are best described as hard fought, aren’t they? If we’ve lived this life for any length of time, we’ve discovered that many accomplishments, battle-wins, growth, or tasks completed don’t come easily. Much effort is required to get from point A to point B.

You might not guess it, but many of my blog posts and other writing projects fall into the hard fought category. Oh, some may come more easily than others, but if I’m honest, I’d have to say many are hard fought. Most require much effort.

For one thing, I’m a slow writer. For another, I have perfectionist tendencies. So unless an idea sparks and words tumble out as fast as I can write them down, they come out like a trickle or a drip rather than a flowing stream or bubbling brook. In fact, sometimes they’re birthed at an excruciatingly slow pace. It’s as if I’m stuck in mud. When that happens, getting pieces written is like struggling through a wrestling match. Any results are hard fought.

Other examples of hard fought victories in life abound. Sometimes learning a new skill or reaching an academic milestone takes all we have to see it through. Others engage in mighty struggles to lose weight or to quit smoking. Some reach their next wedding anniversary only by the grace of God and their non-negotiable commitment to honor their vows and protect their families. Still others fight to stay true to their faith in God when life deals them one blow after another.

I wonder if any of us today are currently faced with hard fought battles. Any wrestling matches underway? Any of us stuck in the mud? Let’s not give up. Let’s dig deep and press on. Like with my writing struggles, we may have to fight hard, but the victories will surely come. And oh, how sweet they’ll be.

“But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.” 2 Chronicles 15:7

*What in your life has come or is coming with hard fought efforts?

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*Flickr photo by Eric Langley, Creative Commons License

Vacation Time for Me, Some Archive Help for You!

258014588_03d07c547a_zMother of the Bride, I’m taking a blogging break until August 3rd, but never fear—there’s plenty of help for you in my archives. I have nearly 200 posts ready and waiting for your use.

Just scroll down to the Archives, the last item on the right sidebar. Click on each year and then click on each month. When you click on the month, then you will see a list of the post titles. I bet you will spot some posts that will be especially helpful to you at this stage in your Mother of the Bride journey.

If you’d like, you can also find lots of great help over on my Pinterest page. Among other things, it features eighteen wedding-related boards. That should keep you busy for a while, huh?

So while I enjoy some vacation time, I hope you find just the help and encouragement you need, MOB. See you again on August 3rd!

*The next issue of Life Notes, my quarterly inspirational newsletter, comes out in early August. Sign up is free and to the right!

*Flickr photo by mandolin davis, Creative Commons License

Visual Overview of The Mother of the Bride Blog

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Mother of the Bride, I need to take an early and extended Spring Break blogging break so I thought this would be the perfect time to point you to a visual overview of my entire Mother of the Bride Blog. I’m hoping this will make it super simple for you to catch sight of posts that interest you so you click over to them and quickly find the help you need.

You’ll find this visual overview of the blog on my Mother of the Bride Blog Pinterest board. Since I’ve pinned each post to this board, you can just scroll down and see not only the title of each post but a photo as well. This way if you don’t have time to read blog post titles, the photo alone will help you decide what to investigate further.

I’ll return with regular blog posts on March 23, but in the meantime, enjoy window-shopping my blog through my blog post Pinterest board. Hope it helps!

Mother of the Bride Blog Pinterest board

*You can also see a complete listing of my blog post titles in the archives section at the bottom of the sidebar to your right. Just click on each year and then each month to get a drop down list of all the titles.

*My photo

Introducing The Mother of the Bride Blog!

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*Update Feb 2019: In order to free up some of my time, I’ll be posting only on the first and third Tuesdays of each month. By now, lots of great help and ideas are available in the Archives. Just click on the drop-down menu to see the titles of posts that interest you or use the search feature to look for posts by topic.

Calling all mothers of the bride—this blog is for you! You deserve every bit of help and encouragement that I—a two-time mother of the bride, an MOB veteran—can give. Why? You’re the mainstay, the troubleshooter, and the chief soother of frazzled nerves in your daughter’s wedding planning whirlwind. And you need an ally!

Every Monday and Thursday, I’ll offer posts designed just for you—the MOB. Whether tips or advice, ideas or examples, links and resources, or refreshment and encouragement, my goal will be to help you as you walk with and assist your daughter on one of the most exciting journeys of her life—her journey as a bride.

Let’s not waste a second getting started. My first tidbit of advice:

Take your cues from your daughter concerning how much help you need to provide. Some brides-to-be will want to do most everything on their own while others will either need or desire as much assistance as you can give.

Both of my girls wanted and appreciated having me as a partner in their planning. Still, I had to be alert to overstepping boundaries and be ready to tailor my input and involvement to the level they desired at any given time.

So as you settle into your role, remember above all that this is her wedding. Your role as the MOB is to stand ready to support her. Not much different from all aspects of mothering, huh?

*To see more great tips, info, and encouragement, visit the Mother of the Bride Blog home page.

*Update: For info about my book Mother of the Bride check out my Books/My Work page.

*Update: *Life Notes, my quarterly inspirational newsletter, offers a giveaway in every regularly scheduled issue. Sign-up is FREE and to the right! (If you’re on a mobile device, scroll to the bottom of the screen and click View Full Site to find it.)

*Photo by Will Flowers

Blogging Break—But New Website Coming Soon!

Sometimes it’s good to outgrow something. And that’s exactly what’s happening with my blog. The time has come in my writing career to move up to something more professional so I’ll soon be launching a new website. Exciting, huh?

I’ll be taking a short blogging hiatus as we put the finishing touches on my new digs. This new venture would never have been possible without the technical expertise of my son-in-law Shawn and my daughter Kristin. Let’s just say God knew what he was doing—in so many ways—when he brought Shawn into our family.

We plan to launch the new site around June 10th so check back then for the link that will connect you to my new online home. I hope you’ll join me!

“‘See, the former things have taken place, and new things I declare; before they spring into being I announce them to you.’” Isaiah 42:9

*Photo taken by Kristin during spring break when we first started working on the new website.

*Have you outgrown anything lately? Is there something new you need to start?