Short But Sweet

So what does a mom do when she gets the chance to see her daughter who lives nearly six hours away, even if it’s for just a few hours? She takes it, of course! That’s what I did this past weekend when Kristin traveled up to Kelli’s to participate in her bachelorette weekend with all the girlfriends and bridesmaids.

I wasn’t part of the girls’ festivities, of course, but I put on my running shoes yet again and made my way over to Kelli’s so I could hang out with Kristin during some free hours while Kelli worked. The visit was short but oh so sweet and totally worth the hour and a half drive to get to see my girl. Believe me, we crammed lots of talking and activity into a very short amount of time.

Of course, the time slipped by too quickly, but I was grateful for each minute. It reminds me of something the psalmist said to the Lord in a prayer: “Better is one day in your courts than a thousand elsewhere…” (Psalm 84:10a). And for me, how much better it is to take time away from the demands of life and spend time with my daughters than to let those demands rob me of precious moments with them.

Sometimes the demands of life try to keep us from moments with the Lord as well. Let’s not let those demands dictate our every move. Let’s take time to make our way to Him. Even if the visit is short, it will be oh so sweet — and totally worth the effort to get there. It always is with one you love…

“Do your best to come to me quickly…” 2 Timothy 4:9

*Kristin’s birthday is Friday. Happy Birthday, sweetie pie! Love you!

Time for an Update

I admit it. I’m past due with a report. If you’ve been reading my blog for awhile, you may be wondering how my husband’s mother is doing now. I’d say it’s time for an update — and what better time to do it than in these days leading up to Mother’s Day.

As you may remember, Don’s mom endured a life-threatening health crisis during the first few months of last year. She has only one kidney, and it’s been failing for the past several years. No one thought she could pull out of last year’s crisis, but she surprised us all — again. She made it out of the hospital, and the kidney slowly began to rebound. Her kidney function remained worse than before the crisis, but at least it stabilized.

And now? I’m happy to report that she’s doing fairly well (knock on wood!). She goes to the hospital every week day for a fluid infusion to help keep the kidney working, but over the past few months her lab work shows that the kidney function is losing ground. Since it’s unable to filter out potassium the way it should, the doctor has put her on a low potassium diet to protect against danger for her heart when those levels get too high. The diet is working, and even though her health situation is not good, we’re thankful that she’s stable.

So there you have it. My overdue update. How about you? Is it time for an update to some of your friends or family members? Life stays so crazy busy, it’s easy to lose touch with one another. Don’t leave your loved ones in the dark. Call them, write them, go see them… There’s no better time than now!

“Do your best to come to me quickly” 2 Timothy 4:9

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*One more note: Elaine Olsen, one of my blogging friends whose name you’ll recognize if you ever read comments here, is celebrating the release of her first book, peace for the journey – in the pleasure of his company, this week. Congratulations, Elaine!

Changed Plans

Ever notice how life has a way of changing your plans in midstream? Between attending the out-of-town funeral for one of Don’s cousins and an impromptu visit by our youngest daughter and her intended, my writing time disappeared this weekend.

Instead of pushing myself and trying to write one of my regular posts when I’m tired, I thought I’d just share a photo of our time with Kelli and Jake. It was a quick visit, but we take whatever we can get with open arms and happy hearts. Okay, so I panicked a little first — but I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t do that! :) Truth is, we love it any time our kids can come home.

How has life changed your plans recently? Whether twists and turns are happy or sad, it’s good to know we have One traversing our paths with us, isn’t it? I pray God’s blessings on you this week!

“‘…And surely I am with you always…'” Matthew 28:20

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Marking Time

Believe it or not, this past Thursday marked my 2-yr. anniversary as a blogger, and over 200 posts later, I’m still blogging away. As of the end of my second year, I’ve had hits from all fifty states as well as 53 foreign countries, including places as surprising as Cameroon, Morroco, Bolivia, and Malaysia. Through the blog, I’ve met many new friends, encouraged and blessed others, received encouragement and blessing in return, and grown as a writer as well. When I took the plunge into the blogging world, I had no idea the blessings that awaited.

As I thought about my 2-yr. mark as a blogger, I began thinking of other identity markers in my life and thought it would be fun to chronicle them here. So here we go:

*54 years as a daughter, granddaughter, sister, niece, and cousin
*50 years as a friend and neighbor to various people (Susan in Arma, KS, is the first friend I remember)
*47 years as a Christian and church member (gave my heart to Jesus at the tender age of 7)
*42 years as a poet — of sorts :)
*40 years as a choir member (to the best of my memory)
*39 years as a driver — became a shopper about that time, too. Imagine that! :)
*36 years as high school graduate
*36 years as a voter
*36 years as a sister-in-law — Debbie started that role by marrying Keith :)
*34 years (in December) as a wife and homemaker
*34 years as a daughter-in-law
*32 years as a college graduate
*32 years as an aunt (34 if you count aunt by marriage)
*30 years as homeowner (the last 4 of those with mortgage paid off!)
*29 years as mother (and all the jobs that entails…)
*28 years a Bible study group participant or leader
*21 years as a preschool Sunday School teacher
*14 years as a writer (on various stages of that journey)
*12 years off and on in various part-time caregiving roles for my mother-in-law
*7 years as a great-aunt
*6 years as an empty-nester
*5 years as a missions committee member
*3 years as a mother-in-law (yay!)
*2 years as a blogger
*1 year as a Facebooker (use the link to connect to me!)
*3 1/2 months as an Angel Tree coordinator
*1 month as a mother of the bride — again!! Yippee!

Okay, so that’s way more of my identity markers than you ever wanted to know, but once I got started it was hard to stop. Sorry :) Of course, there are a host of things that I couldn’t nail down to a specific time — like chocolate-lover, prankster, and nut for example :), — and then other things that were temporary roles like student, secretary, teacher, prayer ministry leader, etc.

We all fill a multitude of rolls throughout our lifetimes, don’t we? I just hope at the end of my days, I’ll be able to say, like Paul, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7). And even sweeter would be the blessing of hearing the Lord say, “…’Well done, good and faithful servant!..'” (Matthew 25:21a)

I’d love to hear how long you’ve been in some of your roles or which of these you share in common with me. Let’s have some fun. Leave a comment and let’s see what we can learn about each other!

Flickr photo by Marionaire

Squeezing In a Visit

My Facebook status this past Thursday morning read, “Meeting one of my best friends in Joplin today for a visit before she moves 7 hrs away. Yay for the visit, boohoo for the move!” And there we are in the picture — squeezing in one more visit before the distance between us nearly tripled. Let me say it once again — boohoo!

Jeneal and I have been friends now for around 23 years, and most of that has been spent long-distance. Before her move a few days ago, she was living almost 2 1/2 hrs. away, and that proved to be too far for us to see each other very often. Last time, in fact, was early December. A couple of times she has lived as close as an hour and a half away, and we felt positively spoiled then.

As I’m sure you all realize, it takes real effort to maintain a long-distance friendship. Ours has been no exception. Email has made it easier the past several years, but phone calls and the occasional in-person visit have been important in helping us feel close and stay connected.

Friendship, whether long-distance or not, requires investing in the relationship, and Jeneal and I chose to do that one more time after she found out rather abruptly that she would be moving. We met at a half-way point and gabbed as fast as our lips could fly, making the most of our few hours together.

Yes, it went by all too quickly, but I’m so thankful we made the time to see each other. And as our long-distance friendship is put to an even more challenging test, at least we’re heading into it fully loaded with that one last visit.

Think for a minute about friendships of yours that may need a fresh investment right now. Any relationship crying out for a little attention? Send that email or make that call. Is it time to squeeze in a visit? Go for it. Take it from me, though — just be sure the ole lips are in flying condition… :)

“Do your best to come to me quickly…” 2 Timothy 4:9

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