Sweet Fellowship

Oh how sweet it is to find a group of people who get you, huh? People with whom you can enjoy meaningful fellowship. On a professional level, I’ve found this with Fellowship of Christian Writers, the writers group I meet monthly with in Tulsa, and also through writers conferences. On a personal and spiritual level, I’ve found this throughout my life with other believers in Christ, whether through the local church or a ministry or mission group.

Today let’s consider and rejoice in the fellowship we share as God’s children. As we read the following Fellowship acrostic, let’s thank God for each aspect of fellowship made possible because of our bond in him. And let’s fellowship!

Finding others with common passions and goals and joining them.

Enjoying time together and encouraging one another in every way.

Listening to the burdens as well as the delights of fellow members of the body of Christ.

Learning from others’ knowledge and experiences and sharing your own.

Owning possessions with open hands and giving liberally to those in need.

Worshiping the Lord together in song, in prayer, and in words of testimony.

Serving alongside one another to minister to others and share the love of Christ.

Helping each other in time of need or to achieve a common goal.

Inviting new folks to join in your activities and groups.

Praying together for needs, common concerns, and for people to come to faith in God.

“We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ.” 1 John 1:3 

*What aspect of fellowship do you most enjoy? Which aspect do you struggle with the most?

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*Flickr photo by Pepe Pont, Creative Commons License

A Group Challenge — Not in It Alone


Remember when I confessed to being a choir junkie? Well, after forty years of singing in one choir or another, this old choir junkie has a challenge ahead. Our director at church has given us new marching orders: “Memorize the Christmas musical.”

Yes, an entire musical—and most of the songs are new to us. Yikes, right?

So why is she putting us Wednesday night warblers through such tough new paces? This year the musical has drama as well. The actors will be lit with spotlights, but the choir will be in the dark. And darn it all, that makes it impossible to rely on our music for words and notes. We’ll need to rely on our memories instead. For some of us, that may be more of a problem than others :)

Memorizing the musical will definitely be a challenge for all of us. We’ll need extra practices, I’m sure, and we’ll each need to listen to the cd and practice at home as we have opportunity. This is when a daily commute to work could come in handy, right? However we manage it, it will mean extra effort for everyone.

The group aspect of the challenge makes it a little less daunting, though. There’s comfort and camaraderie in knowing that we’re not in this thing by ourselves. We can encourage one another and even have fun together moaning about our mess-ups. And I remind myself that at no point, believe it or not, will I be asked to sing this entire musical from memory by myself :)

When I forget my words or my notes (I’m an alto), I’ll need only to listen to those around me. Chances are, someone else will remember what I forget—and vice versa. I’ll be a help from time to time to someone else who has a memory glitch. We’ll work together, and our sense of teamwork will stretch and grow as never before as we face this musical challenge together.

Are any of you working on a group challenge right now? Whether now or during a future task, let’s remember that we’re not in it alone. Let’s lean on one another. Let’s be the strength to each other’s weakness.

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. . .” Ecclesiastes 4:9-10a

*Flickr photo by Richard ‘Tenspeed’ Heaven, Creative Commons License

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Taking the Leap: A Goal Fulfilled

Fulfilling a goal many times requires taking small, gradual steps. Other times, however, it demands a giant leap. I took such a leap two weeks ago.

Since my former critique partner decided she could no longer critique for me, one of my writing goals (and ongoing prayers) for the past couple of years has been to find a new critique partner or group. Even though I’ve known having other writers read and make suggestions on my writing is essential to turning out my best work, I’ve been hesitant to take the plunge and get involved in a new critique situation. Why? Fear of the unknown.

For one thing, it would mean learning a new computer skill. I hate to admit it, but I hadn’t yet learned how to insert comments into attached documents emailed to me. I didn’t know if I would be able to figure out whatever method a new critique group might require.

Also, since I don’t live in a metropolitan area, I knew my chances of finding an in-person critique group were pretty slim. The other option would be an online group, but the thought of joining an online group that would include strangers didn’t really appeal to me.

Not only could it be uncomfortable communicating with strangers, it could get especially tricky when pointing out weaknesses or offering suggestions on their writing. I was also concerned about getting into a situation where I didn’t know the level of experience the other members might have.

Still, I knew I needed a critique group if I hoped to improve my writing and my chances for publication. It was time—no, past time—to set my fear of the unknown aside and join an online critique group. It was time to take the leap.

And so, after seeking the Lord’s guidance, I joined the FCW online critique group. I have to say it felt GREAT to finally fulfill this particular goal of mine. I’ve already had one piece critiqued and offered critique as well, and now I’m kicking myself for not having taken the leap earlier. I can already see that this group will be a huge help to me—and I know some of the members as well since I attend the group meetings in Tulsa.

How about you? Anyone need to take your own leap of faith in order to fulfill one of your goals? Don’t let fear of the unknown (or any other fear) hold you back the way I did. Seek God’s leading—and then leap away!

“‘. . . The righteous will live by faith.’” Romans 1:17b

*Flickr photo by The Daily Ornellas

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5241046624_76bb6b5145_z“…let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” Hebrews 12:1b

“Us.” One tiny word, two little letters, with giant impact.

Who is to throw off everything that hinders? Us. Who is to run with perseverance? Us. Who is the race marked out for? Us. Not me. Not you. Us. We don’t have to run the race alone.

Just think of how that one little word changes everything. We can have support. We can have camaraderie. We can have the encouragement of others as we run our races, whether they’re races wrapped up in relationships, jobs, illnesses, goals, losses, or living lives of faith with victory.

In fact, we’re not meant to live the Christian life independent of other believers. Another passage in Hebrews (10:24-25) tells us, “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” Do you see it again? Us. Yes, we need to run together.

Let’s consider each of the races in our lives right now. Do we have running partners or groups running alongside for each one? Do we have those who are spurring us on, encouraging us, and giving us strength to persevere—or are we out there all on our own?

Let’s not forget the little word that changes everything. Let’s not forget “us”.

“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!” Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

*Flickr photo by Drongowski, Creative Commons License

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Christmas Music in October??

Christmas music in October?? You bet — at least for our church choir and many more like us getting ready for the upcoming holiday season. In fact, it’s none too soon to start rehearsing for cantatas or musicals. Such musical marathons require hours and hours of practice — plus the crowning touch of God’s help as most of us never feel quite ready when performance day arrives.

Our choir will begin practicing our Christmas musical, Unspeakable Joy, tonight. Fun stuff for an old choir junkie like me. I had to hang up my choir robe for the past few months (actually we don’t wear robes anymore…I just like the play on words :)) while dealing with Don’s mom’s repeated hospitalizations and the final days of Kelli’s wedding prep, but as of last week, I’m back — and hoping to keep it that way for awhile.

And what better time to jump back into choir than when we get to start singing Christmas music. It’s beautiful, it’s fun, and it’s filled with joy. Best of all, it’s brimming with the best glad tidings the world has ever heard — “Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord.” (Luke 2:11)

Even if you’re not in a choir making preparations for a joy-filled Christmas program, why not get in on a little of that joy yourselves? Why not sing a Christmas carol or two? I know it’s a little early, but that’s okay. I give you permission :) After all, it’s never too early to worship and praise the Lord. I guarantee you, both you and the Lord will enjoy it!

“Come, let us sing for joy to the LORD…” Psalm 95:1a

*What are some of your favorite Christmas songs?

**Flickr photo by John-Morgan